Who doesn’t love a good surprise? February has Valentines Day. It’s that time of year that the thoughts of flowers, chocolates, wine and other gifts are prevalent. Be my Valentine! Along with the special romantic musings comes a time of surprises, whether you are on the giving end or on the receiving end. Surprises can be had at any time however… which enhances the surprise when it’s least expected! Recently, we were on the giving end and surprised our son, daughter-in-law, and two of our grandchildren. They just happen to live over 1400 miles away!
It all started out hearing that our 9 year old granddaughter was going to be in a school play. Our daughter-in-law’s mother who lives near us was going to fly out and spend a week so that she could see the play. The wheels started to turn. We contacted the school to find out about tickets and other details. We booked the flights, the lodging and the car and headed out west!
Stacy, one of the school nurses staff who we initially contacted just happened to have a daughter who was friends with our granddaughter who was in the play. It made life much easier as she was just as excited in surprising them as we were.
When we showed up at the School about 45 minutes before the performance, we were hidden in the nurses office until they could get seated and situated. Our new friend convinced them to get their picture taken at which time we did our photo bomb before we tapped them on the shoulder! The expressions and reactions were priceless!

Several years ago, I decided to throw a surprise birthday party for Pat. She never gets on FaceBook, so I thought about inviting whomever that way, but then I thought about all of the lives that she has touched over the years and decided to do invites instead. Our one daughter and a good friend suggested keeping it simple, so we did.
I started out emailing family and friends… friends from High School, friends from Nursing School, friends from a previously attended church and our present church, friends from the Emergency Department and the GI Lab where she spent a good portion of her nursing career. All said and done, there were probably about 150 people. Yes, simple, right?
Many had responded with the question, “what can I do or bring?” My response was to bring an Hors d’ Oeuvre type of food while we furnished the cake and drinks, simple, right? The spread with the help of so many turned out to be fantabulous!
Now, when you run a bed and breakfast that has an Event Room, how do you hide that 
The next thing is how to get a room full of people into the room where she would definitely recognize every individual coming to the property? Simple, right? Since it was her birthday weekend, I just shared with her that we, our immediate family was planning on celebrating the next Sunday as one of our girls had a prior commitment. Since it was Sunday, and her birthday weekend, Carissa would be able to accommodate any guests for a late breakfast and handle the event taking place in the Event Room. After all, it was “her family”! The plan was to go to church and then after church, Pat, her mom, and I would go for a simple lunch at a local restaurant. Since Carissa was involved, we could take our time and not feel rushed.
Time to head home and see how Carissa is doing with her mom’s party. As we passed the 


			
			




